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Saturday, October 20, 2007

Can you pay my bill bills bills?

R.A.W


Okay I am at a lost of words. I have been dating this guy the last 3yrs and I am tired of carrying all of the weight in this relationship. No he is not a thug or a bum and he keeps a good job. It's just that I pay majority of the bills in the house. I work part time and still try to maintain a lil money just to have and he just "give's what he can". While I see him spending money other places. I know that he means well but I don't feel like you can live life forever just giving what you can. Bills have to get paid and other things need to be maintained and I carry most of the weight. My heart tells me to stay with him because of what a good man he is and my life keeps reminding me that its takes more than that to keep on living. I'm getting fed up the more I try to explain why I feel this way. Now I'm ready to leave.


Wow Can you pay my bills bills bills


I have been in that situation b4. Its hard to deal with I know but you have to realize why you and that man have been together for the last 3yrs and see where you really want to be for the next 3yrs. You have an option to keep staying with him and receive what he gives you and never feel that its enough. Or you have an option to leave him alone and let him deal with the way you are dealing with the world. Let him see how it feels to pay all the bills. If he was in his own place he could not just give his landlord "what he cans". Well maybe he can but how long will that wear out??


Bye Bye Now~
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