Gettin tired of the jack in the box

Yea R.A.W

My son's dad is a trip. This dude pops up over my house whenever he wants to. I am getting so tired of this shit. We are cool and he takes care of his son but what the hell does that mean? He will pop up when he gets ready and make it seem like I am the reason why he can't take his son with him. Maybe we were just getting out of the bed. Maybe we were having a nice day in our Jammie's and were watching movies. Or maybe my son was not home when he decided to pop up. I can't take this shit anymore. He is getting on my nerves. I am so close to cussing him out its terrible. If I cuss him I know the he will stop coming all together for a while. Which does not bother me at all. However, I know how it will affect my son. I really don't know how to get out of this situation.

Tired of the jack in the box



Well Tired of the jack in the box



You have to stand up for yourself. You can not let this man keep violating your privacy. That's exactly what he is doing when he comes to your home unannounced and uninvited-. The best way to go about this is to sit him down and talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If that doesn't work then fuck him!! Obviously he doesn't care about your feelings anyway. You can not live your life worried about how that will affect your son. If that stops from seeing his son then he has issues and he is a sad person. Talk to your son and let hm know why he can't see his dad today. Don't talk down on his dad even though we will love to say "You can't go with your dad because he is a piece of shit!!"...That may not be the best idea. However, tell your son that he could not go with his dad today because dad didn't call you so that you would have him dressed and he could not wait or that dad came when he was out. Whatever you tell him make it pleasant. He will grow older and see what dad really is about. Hopefully by that time dad has grew up.

Bye Bye Now
R.A.W