FLYY & SINGLE & READY TO MINGLE

OK I'm a beautiful, educated, no kids, and I have a good head on my shoulders. However It's hard for me to meet the right man. Guy's are often intimidated by me and may feel I'm not down to earth. However once they get a chance to know me they realize that I'm really a cool chick. People try to make me seem so high maintenance, and I try to LAME OUT just so that Guys won't think that. So this is a 2 part question. The first one is what can I do to make myself more approachable?? The second question is I have never had a date for New Years, Since I've been grown I have spent NYE with my Girls.. But this year the Girl's wants to have dates... So I have a lil over a month to find a date... I'm not dating any one currently and the guys who I have heard like me of course are afraid to step to me.. So what can I do to speed the process up so that I can have a date and I won't be left out??? P.S I'm really a Shy Person so nothing extreme......


FLYY & SINGLE & READY TO MINGLE



Ok Miss Flyy and Shyy person I see where your problem lies. You need to start getting a chance to know some men honey. Its not to extreme to go out and have some fun so how about if when you go out take heed to your surroundings. (Now I'm not saying that the club is the best way to pick up men...)but how about this. Say you see a guy at the bar and he is looking gooood girl! I mean he looks like the kinda guy to take home to MOMA! So you checking out his swag and you notice that he orders a Corona every time he goes to the bar. So you know what you do? While you are checking him out, notice how empty his drink gets. Then you take him one. Maybe you can send it to him or you can meet him at the bar. (It works for us sometimes:) That not only makes you approachable but it also leaves room for conversation. Exchange numbers and call him. Then ask the man what his plans are for New Years. And get him girl!!!

Bye Bye Now

R.A.W

Gettin tired of the jack in the box

Yea R.A.W

My son's dad is a trip. This dude pops up over my house whenever he wants to. I am getting so tired of this shit. We are cool and he takes care of his son but what the hell does that mean? He will pop up when he gets ready and make it seem like I am the reason why he can't take his son with him. Maybe we were just getting out of the bed. Maybe we were having a nice day in our Jammie's and were watching movies. Or maybe my son was not home when he decided to pop up. I can't take this shit anymore. He is getting on my nerves. I am so close to cussing him out its terrible. If I cuss him I know the he will stop coming all together for a while. Which does not bother me at all. However, I know how it will affect my son. I really don't know how to get out of this situation.

Tired of the jack in the box



Well Tired of the jack in the box



You have to stand up for yourself. You can not let this man keep violating your privacy. That's exactly what he is doing when he comes to your home unannounced and uninvited-. The best way to go about this is to sit him down and talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If that doesn't work then fuck him!! Obviously he doesn't care about your feelings anyway. You can not live your life worried about how that will affect your son. If that stops from seeing his son then he has issues and he is a sad person. Talk to your son and let hm know why he can't see his dad today. Don't talk down on his dad even though we will love to say "You can't go with your dad because he is a piece of shit!!"...That may not be the best idea. However, tell your son that he could not go with his dad today because dad didn't call you so that you would have him dressed and he could not wait or that dad came when he was out. Whatever you tell him make it pleasant. He will grow older and see what dad really is about. Hopefully by that time dad has grew up.

Bye Bye Now
R.A.W

WHY???

Yo R.a.w
I just have 1 question...why? Why is that as soon as you get over a guy his ass come running back? Why is that? I was with this guy and we broke up. Of course I was the one left devastated. I could not eat sleep or shit. I couldn't do anything but cry. I tried my best to get over him. Everyday I did something different. I went out to clubs on days that I normally would not. I went out with guys I would have never dated. Did things out of the ordinary just to get over him. Now he is back. He has confessed his love for me and apologized. He says that he will never do it again. I believe him but I am so much over him its ridiculous. I don't want him anymore. He does not understand that at all. It seems like just because he has apologized he feels that we can go back to where we left off. I don't think so!! I don't feel him at all. I have told him but it doesn't seem to matter. He wants to do what he wants. Come over when he wants and I am sick of it. So again I ask why?????


WHYY

If a person comes to your house and knocks on the door you have 2 choices. 1. You can let them in or 2. You can keep them out. If every time he comes over and gets in he will do it again. And again. Until you put a stop to it. You may have to stop seeing him for a while. Tell him how you feel about him. Let him know that you are over him and he should back up. I'm sure that he will. He may not know that he has no chance for any more romance with you. He may not know what he is doing to you. No one can do what they want unless you let them. If he doesn't back up...GET a RESTRAINING ORDER!!

Bye Bye Now~

Once you pop you can't stop

Man R.A.W

What do you if you are with someone and care about someone else? Okay so I'm with this girl and we have been dating for some time now and I ended up meeting someone else. So now I like the new chick right. But I don't mess with her because I have to much respect for my girl plus I know that once I start I cant stop ya know.



Hey Can't Stop

Looks to me like you answered ya own damn question. For real dude. What do you mean what do you do? NOT A DAMN THING!!! Unless you are 1. Ready to loose ya girl and move on with the new chick and 2. If you are not ready to move along you will open the door up for a lot of trust issues in your current relationship. Why do you want to fuck that up? Is the kitty cat that serious? You really need to decide what you want and in the meantime re-calculate the respect you have for your girl because if you respect her like you say...the thought would not have crossed your mind.

Bye Bye Now~